MY MOTHER SANG My mother sang the songs of the musicals, and she sang them with panache. Rodgers and Hammerstein, Lerner and Lowe, Irving Berlin, Oklahoma, Pippin, you name it she knew it. And she could be fickle, too! One moment she'd sing "I'm gonna wash that mind right outta my hair,"--then, a change of heart, a sudden softening, and it was "Can't help loving that man of mine." Female parts, male parts, in between--she could do them all. She was a sprightlier Peter Pan than Mary Martin, had better legs than Mitzi Gaynor, and was more enthusiastic than Ben Vereen. She'd belt one out, brassy, Gypsy--or Mame--then soft and fragile: Send in the Clowns. I remember those days: she, a nonstop whirling dervish of show tunes, and I, eyes wide at the edge of the bed, her rapt audience of one, flipping through her endless repertoire of tunes with my imaginary remote control. The gypsy, the acid queen, pay before she starts--the new as well as the old. Singing in the Rain, Cats, A Chorus Line, Teyve, Eliza Doolittle, Henry Higgins, Bloody Mary(is the girl I love), Sunrise Sunset, Bali Hai, Trouble in River City, Officer Krupky, Tradition--God that was a dream! RICHH